The Bonds of Love Never End My dad died when he was only 60, but my mum never stopped talking about him, or to him. “George would have given you a hand with that wall-papering” or “Come on George, sort this out for us” etc. It was just part of our Catholic household, part of life, even if we don’t get all the theology about it, the idea of a communion of saints – including those loved ones who have died - who inspire us, and guide us and talk to God on our behalf. It’s wonderful to be, and remain, connected. The Gospel invites us to ponder this mystery of the bonds of love that persist, even after death, Jesus is tested in this Gospel, and the question put to Him shows that this sort of thinking about who we are connected with has been around for a while. Some Pharisees ask Jesus who would be the husband of a woman who had been widowed and married many times. The question seems tricky for Jesus who dodged it a bit but was not entrapped by them. He dodged it by focusing on life rather than death. My mum died a year ago confident that she would be with George who she never stopped loving. But also confident in being with her 8 brothers and sisters, and her loved nieces and nephews and friends who had died before her, and her parents and even grandparents that she had never met. The question asked of Jesus is only interesting because it tries to fit god’s promise of eternal life, and love, into our human understanding. I like to think my mum sorted it out before heading there herself – The relationships are not broken in death, there’s room in heaven for all our love, in all of God’s love. Jan MacLeod written with Colin
It is important to support younger children in developing deep and consistent prayer lives. Help them know that God lovingly calls us into a personal relationship and always hears our prayers. God want to be part of EVERY aspect of our lives not just when things are difficult. Here are some fun ways to encourage you to be in relationship with God everyday and to bring all things to God in prayer.
Prayer Dice A prayer dice can be used as a quick and way to have prayer in the morning. Each side of the dice will have a word on it, for example, family, grandparent, animals, teachers, siblings, the environment, people who are sick, people who are lonely, pets or animals, your choice. Whatever the dice rolls on is what we pray for. At prayer time, maybe roll the dice 2 -3 times. Finish with a response e.g., “Merciful God hear our prayers”
Meditation Prayer Write down your own prayer or think about something you want to pray about. Go outside or find somewhere quiet at home and find a space on their own. Set a timer for 3-5 minutes. Get everyone to lay down on their backs and do a mediation type of prayer. Encourage stillness and a return to your prayer if your attention wanders, but leave space to just be in God's presence.
Prayer Ball Buy a small ball and write different things that you could use to spark prayer. Throw the ball to each other and stop every 5 passes. Wherever your thumb is pointing use that to create a prayer. Here are some examples of things you could use:
- Pop up and say one thing to praise God for something - Ask God to help someone who is sick - Shout out loud somewhere you can be like Jesus today - With a friend - Pray for a child who lives where there is war - ask God to help you cheer up someone who is feeling sad - Tell God about a fun day you have had and thank God for that day - what makes you sad? Why? Ask God for comfort - some children have no clean water , ask God to help them - pray for someone you have seen on TV - thank God for someone who is older than you - shout out the name of someone who helps you - put you left foot into the circle - then pray for those kids who don't have any shoes and warm clothes - pretend to swim around the room and prayer for those people who live on island effected by climate change - if you could email God .... what would you say? Tell God now. - with a friend pray for all the babies and mothers in the world - what is stopping you from helping others? Ask God to help you be brave! - What could you donate that someone else could use? Ask God to help you be more generous. - what is your favourite thing about God? Tell your friend - zoom around the room and tell God 3 people you are thankful for - stand like a tree and pray that we can be more careful with our environment - think of something you have done wrong. Silently tell God you are sorry. - make the sound of a lion or wild animal - thank God for the amazing creatures we share this planet with - find 3 people and tell each one something you are thankful for Prayer Marbles Choose between 3-5 marbles Take turns to put the marble into the box saying one thing that you are thankful for.
Prayer Book Writing down things you are thankful for to God for in the front of the journal. This can be family, friends, sky, grass, etc. anything that they love and appreciate about the world In the back things that you want to asking God about: for example, 'Loving God please stop hunger and war.' or 'God of miracles please heal my cat who is feeling sick.’
M&M Prayer 5 colours blue - family green - friends yellow - church red - people of other religions orange - leaders and teachers
The children get 3-5 m&m’s or counters which they have to pray for and take turn to share their prayers.
Prayerful playdoh Think of something in your life you are struggling with or having problems with. Use the dough to create an image that represents this. Are you make the image listen to what God might be saying to you about the situation. Have a discussion with God and allow it to move back and forth, from talking to listening. Once everyone has finished creating end the prayer with something like, God give us the courage to deal with things are Jesus would. Amen
Lego Prayer Choose a piece of lego Step 1: Hold your brick, pray for yourself. Thank God for the things you have been given. Ask God to bless you and to help you to bless others. Step 2: Count the bumps on your brick. For each bump on your brick, pray for a different person - friends or family members. Ask God to bless them this week. Step 3: Find someone in the group who has a different colour brick to you. Thank God for something about this person. This could be a trait, attribute or skill. Thank God for making each person special and unique. Pray that we will learn how to celebrate, understand and include people who are different to us. Step 4: Find someone with the same number of bumps on their brick as you. Thank God for families and friends and all who care for us. Ask God to help us to be make an effort to be friends with those who are lonely. Step 5: Swap your brick with someone. Thank God for the person you swapped with and ask God to bless them this week. Step 6: Put all the bricks together and build a structure or tower with them. Thank God for the church and the communities we live in. Pray that God will help us to include others and to help people know that they are loved and valued.
5 Finger Prayer To take home. Thumb – for the ones we love (our thumb is closest to us. 1st finger – for the teachers (this is our pointing finger) 2nd finger – for out leaders (this is the tallest finger) 3rd finger – for the sick and vulnerable (this is our weakest finger) 4th finger – for me THE PALM - Mother Earth who's future we hold in the palm of our hands.